Our last day:
On our last morning, we decided to walk through our old
neighborhood in Miraflores, where we’d stayed when adopting both Max and Carolina. For Max’s
adoption, we stayed, at Raul’s suggestion, at a small hotel called
Suite Services. Last month, before we left home, Ichecked and was happy to see it was still there. When we were here in 1988, there had been other adopting
families staying there who also had Raul as their lawyer.
We found it, and walking toward it, also found the apartment
we’d stayed at three years later. At that point, as our family was getting larger, a hotel room, with a toddler and an infant, wasn’t going to work as well.
So Raul found us an apartment just down the street. It was in the same building
as the U.S. consulate, where everyone, us included, went for their visas. So it
was where I spent my very last hours in Peru, getting Carolina’s visa, before
being able to head home. The consulate
is no longer located there, but our apartment building still is, recognizable with its heavy metal fence.
We walked down our old street, and were happy to come upon the hotel. I posed
in front of the building for Loring to take a picture. And then, satisfied, we
began to walk on. But before we got to the corner, a woman came out of the hotel and called to us. I walked back
and explained to her that we had stayed there thirty one years ago when we had
adopted our son. She invited us to come inside, In the little lobby, she explained to the woman behind the desk what I
had told her. They asked if we remembered what room we had stayed in, but we
didn’t. I do remember looking out the window, waiting for Raul to come with the baby, and then seeing them. We were parents! So it was one of the higher floors front facing rooms.
They told us that Tito, the owner, would be right back. And he was. He
offered us coffee, and we had a wonderful conversation, reminiscing and telling him what wonderful memories we had of our stay
there. He seemed pleased and quite
touched. The hotel had been there for
thirty four years, so was only three years old when we stayed there. He
remembered Raul, of course, and said that they used to refer to the place as
the “baby hotel.” We told him we were
still in touch with the Alvas and had just seen them a day or two before.
It was a wonderful way to conclude our sojourn. But there
was still one more event.
Before returning to our
apartment to pack, we went to the Amano textile museum. It was somewhat different than what I remembered, and had
clearly been renovated. There are still many drawers of textiles, but they are
metal cabinets rather than the wooden ones I remember. I am sure that they now are much
more sophisticated in their preservation techniques. Sadly for me, the
drawers are now locked. They do offer guided tours, and so I am guessing that they
pull open some of the drawers then. But otherwise, I am not sure one would even
notice the drawers, or know that they held many more textiles than those on
display. Nevertheless, there were enough textiles on the walls to mesmerize me,
so I was not too disappointed. But
imagine being able to pull open drawer after drawer and marvel at the quantity and exquisite quality of the textiles inside. I feel so lucky to have been able to see them
in earlier years.
I had purchased some textile fragments myself when I was
originally in Peru. They have sat in a box for many years, until recently, because I was intimidated by the advice
of our friend, a Met Museum textile
conservator, who gave me explicit instructions on how to properly mount
and preserve them. But finally, a couple of years ago, I decided they would at
least last as long as I did, since they’d lasted a thousand years already, and followed a modified version of Nancy’s instructions. And Loring made box frames for them. Now I can see and appreciate
them daily.
In the city, taxis were everywhere. They slowed down as soon as you stepped
out the door. We debated whether to take a cab or an Uber to the airport, and decided
to try for a cab first. Many cabs drove by, none stopping. We tried to stand in
front of our luggage, guessing that they didn’t want to drive to the airport,
at least an hour’s drive though not far in mileage, just heavy in traffic.
Finally
a cab did stop, but declined to go to the airport. A second cab, a few minutes
later, same thing. So we decided to call an Uber. Loring activated his phone,
for which we were charged $10 any day we used it. We’d only used it once during
the trip. Thankfully, we were informed that about eight drivers were nearby. I went to check the street address, to make
sure the driver was coming to exactly where we were. Loring called me over, the car
had come. We got in after Loring had checked the plate. (or thought he
had.) A few minutes later, he got a message that our Uber driver had arrived. But we were already on the road with what
turned out to be a cab driver who was fine with driving to the airport! Uber asked if we wanted to pay the Uber
driver for the inconvenience of our having cancelled. We said yes, of course.
It was three soles, a dollar.
Our driver spoke virtually no English but knew the
roads intimately. He zigged and zagged in and out of streets and sections of
the city, and delivered us with a flourish to the airport. He was so good natured.
He communicated in rudimentary English –
Me, one hour, Uber, two hours!” Even
though his fee was a few dollars more than the Uber would have been, we gave
him a generous tip.
For an hour’s drive, the cost was less than $25 including
the tip, and the dollar for the phantom Uber driver.
Our trip home was long but uneventful. We spent a
couple of hours in Fort Lauderdale between flights, and arrived home at about
11am after an overnight flight. Franz
and Carolina, having returned home a few days earlier, picked us up at the
airport.
Right now I’ve got a ton of handicrafts spread out on the
dining room table. Tomorrow I will pack them up, after choosing and letting Max
andMichaela choose a couple of items. I will bring them to Partners in
Development for them to sell and help even some more folks in addition to the
ones I bought them from.
It’s been an emotional and rewarding trip, as all of our trips
to Peru have been. I wonder what will
come next in the evolving relationship with Carolina and her birth family. One thing that's clear is that she will remain in contact, and committed to her birth mother and newly discovered siblings. And maybe even learn some Spanish.