Thursday, February 23, 2023

Our Woman in Hanoi


 

We are on the Peony dayboat in Halong  and Lan Ha Bays in Vietnam. This is a part of our two night cruise on the Peony, a 20 cabin boat. Halong is one of the most famous and most scenic places in the country.  The bay comprises myriad rock formations called karsts that jut out of the water. Even in the mist that is currently covering the area, it is incredibly scenic and moody. 

Today we will spend most of the day cruising the bays, with stops at a beach and near a village, which we’ll approach by bicycle and electric golf cart (bike for Loring,  electric cart for me.)

We drove several hours from Hanoi yesterday, with Smoky, our guide in Hanoi, and our driver. Unfortunately the driver took the wrong road, adding quite a bit to our drive, because we needed to double back toward Hanoi quite a way. The driver was embarrassed and extremely apologetic, and Smoky was clearly frustrated and annoyed with him.  He didn’t speak much English but sure said “sorry” a number of times. After Smoky reassured us that we wouldn’t miss the boat, we were fine with the situation. Smoky had planned for us to take the slower route to the bay, stopping along the way at a village where they make ceramic pottery. And the plan is to take the faster highway back tomorrow, to take us back to the Hanoi airport for our flight to Hue, the next lap of our trip.

I felt terrible for the driver, especially knowing how important “face” is in the culture. It must have been excrutiating for him to be strongly berated by the guide, in front of us. He seemed appreciative that we were reassuring, though, and gave us each a big hug when he dropped us off at the dock..

We did stop, along with a slew of tourist busses, at a rest stop where there were bathrooms and a café, and also about five large rooms filled with crafts of many kinds, pottery, jewelry, paintings, embroidery, and more. A couple of dozen women and a few men worked at large intricate embroidered panels. If I understood the man there correctly, they were folks with polio and perhaps other disabilities  who were trained to do the work and thus support themselves.

Vinh, or Vinny, is the manager on the dayboat (the English speaking guides and staff all seem to have English nicknames). The manager on our bigger, overnight boat, is nicknamed Elvis, because, we are guessing, of his Elvis like hairstyle. It was a bit incongrous to do tai chi early this morning on the deck, led by Elvis in his white silk pajamas. 

We had tried to find people doing tai chi in Hanoi, which they supposedly do by the lake in the middle of the city, not far from where we are staying. They do it early in the am, from 5 to 6. But we never found them. It was perhaps because the weather was on the cool side. But we did discover lots of people jogging, walking, and doing calisthenics along the lake in the early morning. The difference between the bustle of the daytime city and the quiet of the early morning before dawn was startling.

Hanoi’s daytime traffic is impressive and overwhelming. The vehicles are primarly motor scooters, along with some cars, some bicycles, and trishaws. The trishaws are bicycles with a seat in the front for one or two passengers.

As part of our tour with Smoky, we took trishaws around the old part of the city. We also walked and travelled by car for parts of the tour.  The sidewalks are completely covered between parked scooters, cafes with tiny plastic seats out front, and street vendors of foods of various types. For most of our walking it was impossible to walk on the sidewalks, necessary to walk in the street, with the various modes of traffic with which we were competing.

 It was challenging, especially when necessary to cross the street. But it wasn’t chaotic. Even with all the weaving in and out, there seems to be a level of curtesy.  I would call the drivers assertive, but not aggressive. At a certain point they will yield to you, if you are brave enough to venture out.  But there is no way I would consider driving any vehicle or even on the back of someone’s scooter ( one of the tourist experiences that seems to be popular here, which we opted out of.)

The trishaws easily hold two aduts, but Smoky insisted that we each have our own, for comfort. And we passed a number of groups of tourists, about a dozen or twenty people, each in  their own vehicle. My guess is that it’s to make a little more income for the drivers, which I don’t begrudge them. But we would have preferred to ride together.

 The shops are arranged by types of merchandise, so there are streets where all the shops have knock off clothing, ones with just sheet metal goods and fabrication, ones with all notions like buttons, ribbons, zippers, etc. And interspersed with them are vendors selling produce, dumplings, pho noodles, pieces of fried chicken that they are chopping and frying right on the street. The street level is all shops, and the families sleep upstairs. Many people sleep in a single room. And many of the places have no kitchens, so it is common for the local people to eat on the street.

Smoky took us to places where they made and sold dumplings, ones where they sold only bowls of beef pho, and more.  We discovered at least part of the reason that the chairs are so small and light plastic is that the police patrol regularly. When they are arriving everyone quickly hauls all the furniture inside. And as soon as the cops leave, the furniture goes right out again.

It’s not noticable when you are walking. But in the evening, sitting on the second floor balcony of a small restaurant in a square, we observed the action twice around. It’s also apparently common for the shop owners to pay off the cops to not be disturbed.

Smoky also took us to a famous temple, and the House of Literature, which is a thousand year old temple that was also the first university in Hanoi, and maybe in the country. There are tablets inscribed with the names all the scholars who passed a very rigorous exam in a given year.

At the temples, the shrines with statues of the Buddha and other dieties are also packed with offerings of common place items, like bottles of soda, bananas, cookies, etc. piled in very neat pyramidal stacks. The offerings to the gods are eventually distributed to local poor.

I remember a similar phenomenon in Thailand some years ago. I was with a group of volunteers in a small village where we were teaching English at a school. The teachers brought us on various excursions. One was to a  small temple, to which we brought supplies as offerings, including numerous rolls of toilet paper. It seemed somewhat incongruous to my western mind.

More startling, still, was to see the prior head monk, who had died, in a clear casket embalmed in liquid.

Travel, as they say, is enlightening.

Smoky also brought us to a family home where the matariarch, ninety years old, lived along with younger family members. Her son and his wife were also there and served us tea and snacks, dried fruit and little sesame candies, from a small laquered box.

In front was a shop where they sold silver jewelry made by the family. Through a corrider behind were the family quarters. There was a large bed, where I believe the great grandmother slept. I think there were fourteen people who lived, there rolling out mats to sleep at night. This was, or at least had been, a wealthy family, and there were pieces of furniture that were hundreds of years old. This had been the family home for generations. They served us tea  and we talked a bit about their lives. I wonder how they had lived through the communist times, (and the country still has a communist government,  although it is not readily apparent.)  I have to  remember to ask Smoky. He will pick us back up at the boat tomorrow and bring us to the airport. We will then have another guide at our next destination, Hue.

Our first full night in Hanoi we went to a water puppet show. It is certainly touristic, but I nevertheless enjoyed it very much. The puppeteers are behind a scrim, and hold long horizontal poles to move the puppets, which are in a shallow pool of water. There are also six musicians playing traditional instruments, two of whom sing. There are fish puppets, dragons, a parade, children frolicking , etc.

 Our second day in Hanoi we had to ourselves, and walked for hours around the city, stopping at several destinations. One place we didn’t make it to was Ho Chi Minh’s mausoleum, which I would have liked to have seen. But after our other stops I was exhausted and ready for a nap before  dinner.

 



 

 

 

 

 

 

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